Children addicted to online game: parents take the mouse work, anti-play game-addiction-IT information

The day before yesterday morning, 42-year old Yang Man (not his real name) in advance to work in her home in one computer in his shoulder bag mouse. Because 13 year old son addicted to online games, during the Spring Festival, Yang Man on all parties would take the child to prevent them from touching online gaming.

Yang Man the son of Kiki (not his real name) in a well-known grade 8 middle school. Since the winter break, Kiki getting addicted to online games, to games and my mother played many disputes. But Yang Man only through work take the computer power cord and mouse doesn't let his son play on the computer.

Access to the game is by chance. After the holiday, Kiki said his friends were playing a turn based online game, he wanted to play with friends. At first, Chen qiqi contact network games boycott, but considering the game is turn based, and Kiki each played only one round, according to the volume of work, Yang Man holding a try let Kiki approached the network game, while he watched.

At first, Kiki good technology, game play was all over in 15 minutes. Yang Man thinking of not accounting for time, so allowing Kiki in the day to finish the job on the basis of playing two rounds. But 5 days later, Kiki technology is getting better, a round of the game took 1 hour, the OMELCO should be playing for close to 3 hours.

See the games taking too long, Yang Man start Kiki intends to control time, but as long as you don't let Kiki playing online games, he would quarrel with the Yang Man, requested an extension of time. In terms of learning, qiqi to a day job, write only a few words after each question, and said questions would not do or think.

The day before yesterday, Kiki to crack computer passwords, while mother was not at home time on computer, but Yang Man takes the mouse. "I've thought about offline, but home TV connected to cable. "Yang Man also tried to take power, but power supply machine heavy, easy to carry.

"Why not send their children to the elderly, to unattended? "Yang Man said that the preference for the elderly this grandson, they spend money to buy Kiki phone, easy Internet access, avoid children unhappy.

Because of concerns about elderly people who buy children mouse, Yang Man and his family plan to buy router that timing, and formed the "parent Union" working together to put an end to children's games. "The children are older, if confrontation, worry about children appeared excessive. "Yang Man said.

"Kids don't play impossible. "Elementary school teacher Xu Hong said, during the Spring Festival, parents in the entertainment, kids also want to be able to play. Children play the game, parents should avoid anxiety that seeing the children feel that learning is going backwards. Holiday child relax, want to play is nature.

Xu Hong proposed, to give them the plan, when jobs, when playing. Meanwhile, parents to form a unified opinion, spoiled children of the elderly, to avoid the care for the elderly. For children already indulged in online games, or to allow it to play, but to strengthen the learning management. "Fighting a protracted war with the addiction to online games, starting now, to stick with it. "Xu Hong said.

孩子沉迷网游：家长带鼠标上班，防儿子玩游戏 - 网瘾 - IT资讯

前天上午，42岁的杨曼（化名）提前上班，在她的单肩包里装着家中一体机电脑的鼠标。由于13岁的儿子沉迷网游，春节期间，杨曼所有聚会都会将孩子带上，防止其触碰网络游戏。

杨曼的儿子琦琦（化名）在某知名初中读8年级。寒假以来，琦琦渐渐沉迷于网络游戏，为了游戏和妈妈起过不少争执。无奈，杨曼只能通过上班带走电脑电源线和鼠标的方式不让儿子玩电脑。

接触到游戏是一次偶然的机会。放假后，琦琦称同班好友在玩一款回合制的网络游戏，他也想和好友一起玩耍。起初，陈曼对琦琦接触网络游戏有所抵制，但是考虑游戏属于回合制，且琦琦保证每天仅玩一回合，按量完成作业，杨曼就抱着试一试的心态让琦琦接触网络游戏，自己则旁边观察。

一开始，琦琦的技术并不好，一局游戏玩15分钟就结束了。杨曼想着不占时间，于是允许琦琦在保证每天能完成作业的基础上玩两回合。然而5天过去了，琦琦技术越来越好，一回合游戏竟然耗时1个多小时，两局下来竟然要玩上接近3小时。

看到游戏占用时间过长，杨曼开始有意控制琦琦时间，但是只要不让琦琦玩网络游戏，他就会与杨曼发生争吵，要求延长游戏时间。在学习方面，琦琦为了达到每天作业量，在每个题后面仅书写短短几个字，并称多题不会做，也不动脑筋思考。

前天，琦琦破解了家中电脑密码，趁妈妈不在家的时间玩电脑，无奈杨曼拿走鼠标。“我考虑过断网，但是家中电视连着网线。”杨曼还尝试过拿走电脑电源，但是一体机电脑电源较重，不易携带。

“为什么不把孩子送到老人家，以便有人看管？”杨曼说，老人偏爱这个孙子，他们专门花钱给琦琦买了手机，方便其上网，避免孩子不高兴。

由于担心老人给孩子买鼠标，杨曼和家人商量购买能定时的路由器，同时组建了“家长联盟”，群策群力，共同杜绝孩子沉迷游戏。“孩子大了，如果采取对抗措施，担心孩子出现过激举动。”杨曼说。

“孩子不玩不可能。”小学许鸿老师说，春节期间，家长也在休闲娱乐，孩子看到也希望能够玩。对孩子玩游戏，家长要避免出现焦虑心态，即看到孩子玩就觉得学习会退步。假期孩子本身放松，想玩也是本性。

许鸿建议，要给孩子制定计划，何时作业，何时玩耍。与此同时，家长要形成统一意见，老人宠爱小孩的，要避免完全由老人照顾。对于已经沉迷网游的孩子，也要允许其玩耍，但要加强学习管理。“与网游成瘾的斗争是持久战，从现在开始，要坚持下去。”许鸿说。