Parents and children, who are more dependent on electronic devices? -Mobile phone-dependent-IT information

Author: Ming 劼 (IT technology chat moderator) | Soft-medium ID:Whatever

First of all, I am not expert in this area, so I can only write my personal feelings. If you think that in China, people's dependence on mobile is strong enough, then congratulations, you're wrong. The United States, I found that people depend on mobile phones can be so intense. After school at a time, so out of more than 2000 children in school looked almost 60% in head down watching his mobile phone. The remaining 40%, part is not a smart phone (after all, the United States public schools are not all conditions are very good), and some is really talking with friends. Every time this time, parents will use this opportunity to say to the children: "my child, you were Too Young, less mobile phone know do not know how? "However, parents do a good example?

Discussion on why parents use cell phones? Listen to parents answered:

A." Things need to deal with company "

This sounds very natural. However, in the United States, we heard on the news gossip website before some other parents with children through a network of free original weekend, because in many Western countries, about the distinction between work and family time is very clear--the company is the company, home is home. This is why low efficiency generally regarded as foreigners: they do not work overtime, never take work home. Get back to business, "the company's" should be completed by the company, to the House, still a good talk to kids about life.

B. "I have my own things to do, kids don't care"

Relatively speaking the answer is unreasonable. Limit cell phone use at the same time, he was busy chatting with friends. I know that many companies have begun to restrict the use of electronic equipment in the company, but most schools are relatively more stringent restrictions on mobile is: either is not allowed even if classes are not allowed to use (at least as provisions write I think no one will object, how do you own is another matter). In this case, the children also need to be able to make use of electronic equipment. I'm not saying children need to have unlimited time to play mobile phone games, but in the case of correctly completing academic tasks need to give them some freedom.

But ... He/she has a computer!

I was studying abroad, don't know internally how to I clear many schools abroad has already begun the so-called "paperless" education, that is, teachers use the Internet to distribute and receive handouts, and homework. In such circumstances, the students can really get in touch with little paper: books were issued online recycling paper is first knock and then printed, even math problems geometry has a specialized system in operation on the computer. So, parents, please adjust their thinking patterns, don't crucify your thinking that everyone is in the middle of the light hard-because of the times, in this day and age, books don't need to turn on the light.

家长和孩子，谁更依赖电子设备？ - 手机依赖 - IT资讯

作者：明劼 （IT圈科技畅谈版主） | 软媒ID：Whatever

首先，我在这方面完全不是专家，所以我只能够通过我的个人感受来写。如果你觉得在中国，人们对手机的依赖性已经足够强了，那么恭喜，你错了。到了美国，我才发现人类对手机的依赖可以如此强烈。每次放学后，在这么走出学校的两千多个孩子中放眼望去几乎有60%的人在低着头看自己的手机。剩下的40%，一部分是没有智能手机的（毕竟美国公立学校里并不是人人条件都很好），还有一部分，才是真正和朋友在说话的。每到这个时候，家长们就会各种利用这个机会对孩子们说：“孩子啊，你还是Too Young，要少看手机，识得唔识得呀？”然而，家长们是否做好了榜样？

论家长们为什么使用手机？听听家长们的回答：

A.“需要处理公司的事情”

这种回答听起来十分理所当然。然而，在美国，之所以大家之前在各种新闻八卦网站上听说过一些类似于父母陪孩子度过一个无网络的原始周末，是因为在很多西方国家，人们对工作和家庭时间的区分非常明确——公司就是公司，家里就是家里。这就是为什么中国人普遍认为老外办事效率低：人家不加班，从不带活回家。回到正题，“公司的事情”就应该在公司完成，到了家里，还是好好和孩子谈谈人生吧。

B. “我有自己的事情要做，小孩不要管”

相对来说这种回答还是比较无理的。在限制孩子使用手机的同时，自己却在一边忙着和各种朋友聊天。我知道现在很多公司已经开始在公司限制电子设备的使用，但是相对来说大部分学校对手机的限制还是比较严格的：要么不允许带，即使允许带上课也不允许用（至少规定是这么写的我想没有人会反对，你自己怎么样是另外一回事咯）。在这种情况下，孩子们也需要一些能够自由使用电子设备的时间。这里我并不是在说孩子需要有无限制的时间去玩手机打游戏，而是在能够正常完成学业任务的情况下需要给予他们一些自由。

可是…他/她已经有电脑了呀！

我在国外读书，不知道国内如何但是我比较清楚的是国外的很多学校已经开始了所谓“无纸教育”，即老师使用网络分发和收取讲义和作业。在这样的环境下，学生们能够真正接触到的纸张很少：书本都是在线发放回收，论文都是先敲再印，就连数学题几何题都有专门的系统在电脑上操作。所以，各位家长，请调整自己的思维模式，不要再把自己的思维钉死在那个所有人都在半夜电灯苦读的时代——因为，在这个年代，读书已经不需要开灯了。