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　　Abandoned for more than 20 years of adoption of "loving mother", due to a fire and came under thorough questioning this year, she's not happy

Yangcheng evening news reporter Chen Qiang

This year's January 4, Baidu, "Yuan much" stick, a Netizen posted: "in the new year, aunt Zhu Yuan in good health, aunt Zhu Yuan dependent brothers and sisters health! ”

Last year on this day, in Henan lankao "loving mother" badly run shelter Yuan in case of fire, killed their adopted 7-abandoned baby and the youngest is only 7 months old. A national uproar.

A big fire so badly built Yuan's "baby Kingdom" come tumbling down. She held out for more than 20 years of adoption of abandoned babies, had to end. Houses were burned, and then the children were taken away, and then hospitalized because of poor body, followed by doubts. Yuan ill said this year, idle time, but have not been easy.

Changed, and not only was he sick? Last June, 7 ministries, such as Ministry of Civil Affairs, national development and Reform Commission, Ministry of public security jointly issued, any institutions or individuals who take an abandoned child. Late last year, Shenzhen, Guangzhou, and other high profile launched its "orphan island". Naturally, these policies along with Yuan badly linked to.

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　　"Those are nonsense, where there are 20 apartments"

Late last year, his son-in-law Guo Haiyang, accompanied by family members, Yuan appeared badly Rams, participated in the good Web hosting th Chinese national for "Forum". The theme of the Forum was "civil aid and the innovation of social management", the Organizer arranged Yuan ill first took the floor.

Yuan ill be in Henan lankao people, locally known for adopting abandoned babies and orphans. Beginning in 1986, her adopted foundling has more than 100. Local people, hospitals and even the "110" picked up children will be sent to Yuan Shikai great homes. On January 4, 2013, her absence, abandoned its adoption shelter fire, killing 7 and injuring 1 and the youngest is only 7 months old.

Afterwards, officials initially ill-posedness Yuan for illegal adoption, but public opinion is almost overwhelmingly Yuan good side. Media said the fire burned out of the embarrassment of China's civil aid, also burnt out gaps in government-run welfare institutions.

However, the winds of public opinion then promptly "reversion". Last February, some media reported he badly is not, as she claims, "not one cent", but has accumulated more than 20 homes at the same time, her "good" and "I win some honours" child category, or even take their money out as a suspect.

This story makes good Yuan's image instantly collapse. Speaking to reporters in Guangzhou, Yuan great initiative to refer these questions: "those are nonsense, where I had 20 apartments! Only 3 sets on hand. Say I take child enrichment, press ' OK ', ' I win some honours ' children, that's bullshit. ”

　　Learn to calm

　　Facing challenge

　　"People get along well with others, where chopsticks are not touching the Bowl? ”

However, for all these years has received many donations, in what place, Yuan great said he did not read the book, not xizhang, "am I stupid as clever, with money to spend, and spend less money. The baby, he would heal, and also want to buy diapers, milk powder, wet, money is spent on them. ”

Yuan ill say, one of the largest donation from Dongguan, one boss, the boss donated 100,000 Yuan by 2011, and in 2013 after the fire broke out and donated 10,000 yuan, "others are modest, there is no specific count posting."

Yuan ill said that he would like to open to question now, "people get along well with others, where chopsticks are not touching the Bowl? "But she admitted that challenge was a great blow to her at the beginning, almost six months to slow excessive.

In April last year, remembers much went to Beijing. An organisation she named "public service promoting China-searching for the forces of change", "public figures", she went to get this award.

After you have had this problem with media, remembers much of media is not arm's length, "I'm willing to deal with the media, not hiding trying to, but for the media and the country's netizens, I may get caught up sentences. "When a reporter interviewed her in Guangzhou, her an invitation," come lankao, entrance of the county people's Hospital, casually asking aunt said looking for powerful, will be able to find me, I'll take you in lankao stroll. ”

　　After one or two weeks

　　Went to see baby

　　"The Government wouldn't let us, what do we do? ”

For "Forum" organizers originally prepared for the Yuan good 15 minutes speaking time, but she stood on stage in no time, you start choking, crying, saying only five minutes, said he was "not culture, don't know how to say" closed his speech in a hurry. In the audience, remembers much told reporters, standing on the stage, suddenly turn out for a year now, think of those dead baby, sick at heart, they cried.

Before coming to Guangzhou, Yuan great went to Kaifeng homes. After the fire broke out, remembers much adopted 11 children were sent there. At about 6 o'clock in the evening before reaching the orphanage, the children were having dinner, carrying cotton, bananas, cookies and two cans of black beans, Mr Yuen, and surge forward shouting "mum, Mum. ”

"These kids have started since I was a kid, very emotional. Orphanage conditions, are you sure better than mine, but old and I know I'll miss it. "Last year, remembers much every week or two will go to Kaifeng, sometimes a friend drove her, sometimes she hitch.

Children see MOM, very happy, but when the mother left, secretly hiding in the corner crying that "on several occasions, children were secretly told me that wants to go home, home good condition although no homes, but institutions don't have freedom at home, not to go out. But the Government won't let us, what do we do? I got them to listen. ”

　　Now resting

　　But not happy

　　"Could not sleep at night, just sitting in bed daze"

Yuan badly run two-storey homes, local governments funded renovations in the last month on fire. Walls are white, the Red Carpet stairs, see fire trail, but this "sad", remembers much to 3 times a year. "One is the Ching Ming Festival, to burn paper dolls was better; ' on good network ' professors to come to see me; there is also a journalist came to interview, I take them to. "She said they just near that place, you feel worried.

Yuan good side now don't have a small baby, "now there are about 10 children, smallest rifle was 14 years old, is a mute, his shrewd enough, come for after the fire the Government, he fled to the Internet Cafe, now live in Internet cafes, dragged his ID, let him not go forth into the field".

Yuan badly of son-in-law Guo Haiyang said, a years to, Yuan badly no longer with abandoned, changed idle has, but had have not pleasant, no yiqian so feel well, "accident Hou by has stimulus, plus heart, and hypertension, and diabetes, in hospital attached live has for more than a months, discharged Hou had has years and onset, and back live has half months, weight reduction has more than 10 more pounds, daily are is inseparable from drug.

For the convenience of taking care of children, remembers much cultivated the habit of sleeping without taking her clothes off, "he remains, often could not sleep at night, just sat in bed rooted to the ground, sometimes a person around in the yard, and then back to sleep. "The Yuan great said he frequently dreams to children sitting around her, and then she would wake up.

　　Once dream now gone with the wind away

　　Used to say that year thinking about starting a welfare home, now broke the idea: "the State is not allowed, I dare not. ”

In previous years, the Yuan good home threw baby from time to time, "after what happened, never", remembers much said, even if there were, I'm not secretly took. "Last year, I met twice, once in dumpsters to see a baby, and I called the police, 120lai away; another is in front of the hospital, a harelip children, son mum'd throw them away, I advised her not to throw, said that now the country has a policy of free surgery. ”

After the fire, the public are asking lankao why no child welfare. Late last year, covering an area of 15 acres of lankao, can accommodate 200 orphans and children welfare centers was basically completed. Ill be fine Yuan often go to lankao welfare site look at ask. Yuan much biggest wish now is that lankao early child welfare centres opened 11 orphans of orphanage back to Kaifeng city, so she can see them.

Participate in the "good guy Forum" during the Yuan good met a fellow Yang Zhenghai, two people the same age. Yang Zhenghai was also civil aid reaching people, since 1999 to adopt homeless man, have been adopted so far more than 400 people homeless. Yang Zhenghai was sharp, sometimes get Rangers back home would take the initiative to the media exposure, "wanted to talk to the press to be a witness, or people will think I'm talking about." However, because tramp labour, begging, Yang Zhenghai lead to dispute.

See Yuen, and Yang Zhenghai complained to her: "you were harmed. "Yuan after what happened to much before long, local civil affairs departments to Yang Zhenghai, homeless forcibly picked up his adoption," everybody is afraid of an accident, does not allow me to adopt the homeless. ”

But after more than a month, Yang Zhenghai was quietly adopted Wanderer, "persisted for so many years, did not also learn was touched, not good people also learn to do good. "Farmer Yang Zhenghai talked about financing his dream--a mentally disabled, disabled travellers," where hostels, canteen, Stadium, through education and training, and keep them alive and valiantly and spiritedly ... ... "

Did not take place before the fire, remembers much media interviews has often said, her dream was to run an orphanage. Now, however, she said, had broken up the idea, "one is older, and do not move, a State is not permitted, we dare not. ”

(Original title: Yuan powerful 2013: in a whirlpool of public opinion badly is no longer "good" (fig))

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袁厉害驳借孩子敛财 称常梦到孩子围坐身边惊醒|袁厉害|弃婴|敛财_新闻资讯

　　收养弃婴20多年的“爱心妈妈”，因一场火灾而饱受质疑；这一年，她过得并不愉快

　　羊城晚报记者 陈强

　　今年1月4日，清晨6点半，百度“袁厉害”贴吧里，一网友发帖道：“在新的一年里，祝袁大娘身体安康，祝袁大娘抚养的弟弟妹妹们身体健康！”

　　去年这一天，河南兰考“爱心妈妈”袁厉害自办的收养所发生火灾，其收养的7名弃婴不幸丧生，最小的仅7个月大。一时，举国哗然。

　　一场大火，使袁厉害苦心经营的“弃婴王国”轰然倒塌。她坚持了20多年的收养弃婴行为，不得不终止。房子被烧，接着孩子被带走，再因身体变差住院，继而是种种质疑。袁厉害说，这一年，空闲时间多了，但过得并不轻松。

　　被改变的，又岂止是袁厉害？去年6月，民政部、发改委、公安部等7部委联合发文，严禁任何机构和个人私自收留弃婴。去年年末，深圳、广州等地高调推出“弃婴安全岛”。人们很自然地把这些政策跟袁厉害联系到一起。

　　舆论变脸

　　形象崩塌

　　“那些都是瞎说，哪里有20套房子”

　　去年年底，在女婿郭海洋等家人陪同下，袁厉害现身羊城，参加中国好人网主办的第四届全国“好人论坛”。此次论坛的主题是“民间救助与社会管理创新”，主办方安排袁厉害第一个上台发言。

　　袁厉害是河南兰考人，在当地以收养弃婴和孤儿闻名。自1986年开始，她收养的弃婴已超过100个。当地百姓、医院甚至“110”，捡到孩子都会送到袁厉害家中。2013年1月4日，她外出时，其收养弃婴的住所发生火灾，造成7死1伤，最小的仅7个月大。

　　事后，官方一开始将袁厉害定性为非法收养，但舆论几乎一边倒地站到袁厉害那边。有媒体称，这把大火，烧出了中国民间救助的尴尬，也烧出了官办福利机构的缺口。

　　不过，舆论风向后来又迅速“逆转”。去年2月，有媒体报道称袁厉害并非像她宣称的那样“没有一分钱存款”，而是拥有累计超过20套住宅，同时，她按“好”与“孬”给孩子分类，甚至有借孩子敛财的嫌疑。

　　这篇报道使袁厉害的形象瞬间崩塌。在广州接受记者采访时，袁厉害主动提到这些质疑：“那些都是瞎说，我哪里有20套房子！手上只有3套。说我借孩子敛财，按‘好’、‘孬’对待孩子，那也都是胡说。”

　　学会坦然

　　面对质疑

　　“人跟人相处，哪有筷子不碰碗的？”

　　不过，对于这些年具体收到了多少捐赠，用在了什么地方，袁厉害说自己没有读过书，未算过细账，“我傻憨憨的，有钱就多花，没钱就少花。那些娃，有的要治病，还要买尿不湿啊奶粉啊，钱都花在他们身上了。”

　　袁厉害说，最大的一笔捐助，来自东莞一位老板，这位老板2011年时捐了10万元，2013年火灾发生后又捐了1万元，“其他都是小数目，没有具体算过账”。

　　袁厉害说，自己现在对质疑已经想开了，“人跟人相处，哪有筷子不碰碗的？”不过她坦言，开始时质疑声对她打击很大，差不多半年才缓过劲来。

　　去年4月，袁厉害去了一趟北京。一家机构把她评为“公益推动中国——寻找变革的力量”“年度公益人物”，她去领了这个奖。

　　与媒体有过这场过节之后，袁厉害对媒体并未敬而远之，“我乐于与媒体打交道，不会藏着掖着，要不是媒体和全国网友，我可能被抓起来判刑了。”记者在广州采访她时，她发出邀请，“你来兰考，到县人民医院门口，随便一打听，说找厉害阿姨，就能找到我，我带你在兰考逛逛。”

　　隔一两周

　　就去看娃

　　“政府不让咱养，咱能怎么办？”

　　“好人论坛”主办方原本为袁厉害准备了15分钟发言时间，但她站上台没多久，就开始哽咽、流泪，只说了五分钟，称自己“没什么文化，不懂怎么说”，就匆匆结束了演讲。在台下，袁厉害告诉记者，站在台上，突然想到转眼就一年了，想到那些死去的娃，心里难受，便哭了。

　　来广州前，袁厉害去了一趟开封福利院。火灾发生后，袁厉害收养的11个孩子被送到那里。傍晚6点左右才到达福利院，孩子们正在吃晚饭，看到提着棉衣、香蕉、饼干还有两大罐豆豉的袁厉害，都涌过来喊“妈妈，妈妈。”

　　“这些孩子，都是我从小开始带的，很有感情了。福利院条件，确实要比我家好，但我心里会老惦记。”去年一年来，袁厉害每隔一两周就会去趟开封，有时朋友开车捎她，有时她自己搭车。

　　孩子们看到妈妈来，都很开心，但等妈妈离开时，会躲在角落里偷偷流泪，“有好几次，孩子们偷偷跟我说想回家，家里条件虽然没福利院好，但福利院没家里自由，不让随便出去。可政府不让咱养，咱能怎么办？我让他们在那好好听话。”

　　如今清闲

　　却不快乐

　　“晚上睡不着，就坐在床上发呆”

　　袁厉害自办的两层楼收养所，当地政府在去年着火当月就出资装修。墙刷得很白，楼梯铺了红地毯，看不出火灾痕迹，但这个“伤心地”，袁厉害一年只去过3次。“一次是清明节，给娃娃们烧了点纸，心里才好受些；一次是‘好人网谈’方教授来探望我；还有一次是记者来采访，我带他们去的。”她说，自己只要一靠近那个地方，就感觉揪心。

　　袁厉害身边现在已经没有小弃婴了，“现在身边还有10来个孩子，最小的来福也有14岁了，是个哑巴，他精明得很，火灾以后政府来接人，他自个儿逃到网吧去，现在就住在网吧里，把他的身份证拽着，好让他别往外地去”。

　　袁厉害的女婿郭海洋说，一年来，袁厉害不再带弃婴，变清闲了，但过得不愉快，没有以前那么得劲，“出事后受了刺激，加上心脏病、高血压、糖尿病，在医院连着住了一个多月，出院后过了年又发病，又回去住了半个月，体重减了10多斤，每天都离不开药。

　　为了方便照看孩子，袁厉害养成了不脱衣服睡觉的习惯，“现在依然如此，常常晚上睡不着，就坐在床上发呆，有时一个人到院子里转转，再回来睡。”袁厉害说，自己经常梦到孩子们围坐在她身边，然后她就会惊醒。

　　曾经的梦想如今已随风而逝

　　当年常说想办个福利院，现在则断了念头：“国家不允许了，咱不敢。”

　　往年，不时会有人往袁厉害家门口扔弃婴，“出事后，再也没有了”，袁厉害说，即使有，自己也不会私自收养了。“去年，我碰到过两回，一次是在垃圾桶边看到一个弃婴，我报了警，120来拉走了；另一次是在医院门口，一个兔唇孩子，孩子妈妈想扔了，我劝她别扔，说现在国家有政策免费做手术。”

　　火灾过后，公众纷纷质疑兰考为何没有儿童福利院。去年年底，占地面积15亩、可容纳200名孤残儿童的兰考福利中心基本建成。袁厉害没事会经常去兰考福利中心的工地看看问问。袁厉害现在最大的心愿就是兰考儿童福利中心早点开张，能将送往开封市福利院的11名孤儿接回来，这样她就可以经常见到他们了。

　　参加“好人论坛”期间，袁厉害认识了一个老乡杨正海，两人岁数一样。杨正海也是个民间救助达人，自1999年开始收养流浪汉，迄今已收养过超过400名流浪人员。杨正海很高调，有时把流浪者送回家会主动找媒体曝光，“想找媒体做个见证，不然别人以为我胡说”。不过，因为带着流浪汉劳动、乞讨，杨正海的行为也引来质疑。

　　见到袁厉害，杨正海向她抱怨：“被你害惨了。”袁厉害出事后没过多久，当地民政部门去杨正海家，把他收养的流浪汉强行接走了，“大家怕出事，不让我继续收养流浪者。”

　　但过了一个多月，杨正海又开始悄悄收养流浪汉，“坚持了这么多年，没有感动也学会了感动，不是好人也学会做好人了。”农民杨正海滔滔不绝地谈起他的梦想——筹资办一个智障、残障流浪者学校，“在那里，有宿舍，有食堂，有球场，通过教育和培训，让他们雄赳赳气昂昂地活着……”

　　没有发生火灾前，袁厉害接受媒体采访时也经常说，她的梦想是办一个福利院。不过，现在她却说，已经断了这个念头，“一个是年纪大了，干不动，一个是国家不允许了，咱不敢。”

(原标题：袁厉害的2013:身处舆论漩涡 厉害不再"厉害"(图))

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2014年01月06日08:14
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