( Residents in Shanghai to discuss a separate second child: the biggest concern when pregnant | second | second | alone _ Shanghai news

The "Xinmin" alive or not? This is the "second child alone" policy came out, the hottest topic in two days. Reporter learned yesterday, the city's concrete supporting policies take some time, but on the "second" wave over wave of discussion--some people don't feel they have the time, money, effort, couldn't afford; others think kids love; it was also trying to, but I think "at least give the right of choice." "Primary school", when you can start, where they are most concerned about the issue.

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Kids can enjoy the company of my childhood

Case study: Lin Ying female 32 years, educators have one female (5 years)

"Two babies is my biggest wish, always ready, waiting for the latest policy on this day! "Lin Ying and her husband had just passed," seven-year itch. " When their daughter was born, she stations having another baby. While her husband was an only child, but Lin Ying has a younger brother, do not meet the birth two-child policy. "Two kids can learn to share, communicate and collaborate, grew up with childhood has a companion, can also reduce the burden of pension in the future. "Lin Ying said," a child was too lonely. "Lin Ying is very busy with work, sometimes goes to work at seven in the morning and not getting back until seven or eight o'clock in the evening. My husband "sometimes have to work all day. No one to play with her daughter from school, often alone watching TV and playing with iPad. It's not good for character. ”

Although the policy has been announced, but when the ground is not clear. "When can you start trying to conceive? "This is Lin Ying are most concerned about.

　　The opposition

Rearing costs are high, "your fine is not your" kids

Case study: Yan Min female 30 years old bank clerk had a son (4 years old)

"In order to have the baby, I've been as busy as a bee, and one really cannot cope. "Yan Min himself was an only child, but her husband has a younger sister, is the future" second child "policies within the allowed range. However, Yan Min, was adamant, "now have no intention of regeneration, nor in the future. ”

Time, energy, or economic pressure, and is the main reason Yan Min gave up a second child. Yan Min told reporters that due to catch the baby boom, built on cards, birth, infant and junior schools, anything to stand in line the dissenters. "As a ' forced ' post, coincided with high housing prices, higher food prices, raising a child so hard, how to challenge the two children? We want to let the children see more things in the future, educational costs, living costs will certainly increase. Baby your fine is not much more expensive, a child I could give him full love and two children, half of all resources are to be distributed. ”

　　Tangled

Family relations, sensitive, disagreements and daughter-in-law

Case study: Zhao Wei man 31 years old software engineer having a woman (8 months)

"I heard policy liberalization, my mother called me that night, I hope we have another one, but the wife does not wish to tease yet awkward yet! "Zhao Wei married for 4 years, my daughter was born in March of this year, just learn to crawl. He told reporters he had a brother, his wife is an only child. Mother always wanted a grandson, policy does not permit prior, policies now, she argued, we have another one. ”

Zhao Wei admitted that he understood why wives do not want a second child, pregnant pretty hard now because home nursing leave also gave up the opportunity to train abroad, in order to sacrifice the child his wife in his career too much. "I don't want to, I think the son and daughter are the same, but his mother prevail, my sandwich was very difficult. "(According to the I-era newspaper)

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November 18, 2013
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上海市民讨论单独二胎:最关心何时可备孕|二胎|单独二胎|上海_新闻资讯

　　【新民网讯】生还是不生？这是在“单独二胎”政策传出后，这两天最热的话题。记者昨天获悉，本市的具体配套政策出台尚需一段时间，不过关于“二胎”的讨论一浪高过一浪——有人觉得没有时间、金钱、精力，生不起；也有人认为多个孩子多份爱；还有人在纠结，但觉得“至少给了选择的权利”。对于“主生派”而言，何时可以开始准备，成为他们最关心的问题。

　　主生派

　　两个孩子可以享受有伴的童年

　　案例：林莹 女 32岁 教育工作者 育有一女(5岁半)

　　“要两个宝宝是我最大的心愿，时刻准备着，就等着政策出炉的这一天！”林莹与丈夫刚刚走过“七年之痒”。从他们的女儿降生后，她就在酝酿着再生一个宝宝。虽然丈夫是独生子，但由于林莹有一个弟弟，不符合生育二孩的政策。“两个孩子可以学会分享、沟通、协作，一起成长童年有个伴，也可以减轻将来养老的负担。”林莹说，“一个孩子太孤单了。”林莹工作也很忙，有时候早上七点去上班，晚上七八点才能回来。我丈夫“有时候也是一整天都要上班。女儿放学了没人跟她玩，常常一个人看电视、玩iPad。这样对性格不好。”

　　虽然政策已经宣布，但具体何时落地尚不明确。“什么时候可以开始准备怀孕？”这是林莹最关心的。

　　反对派

　　养育成本高，“贵精不贵多”孩子

　　案例：严敏 女 30岁 银行业务员 育有一子(4岁)

　　“为了这个孩子，我已经忙得团团转了，多一个真的应付不了。”严敏自己是独生女，但丈夫有一个妹妹，正在未来“二胎”政策允许范围内。不过，严敏的态度很坚决，“现在没有再生的打算，将来也不会有。”

　　时间、精力还有经济压力，是严敏放弃二胎的主要原因。严敏告诉记者，由于赶上生育高峰，建卡、分娩、上幼儿园和小学，任何事情都要排队伤脑筋。“作为‘苦逼’的80后，正好赶上高房价、高物价，养一个宝宝都如此艰难，如何挑战两个孩子？以后我们希望让孩子见识更多的东西，教育成本、生活成本肯定还会提高。孩子贵精不贵多，一个孩子我可以给他满满的爱，两个孩子所有的资源都要分一半。”

　　纠结派

　　家庭关系敏感，婆媳意见不一

　　案例：赵伟 男 31岁 软件工程师 育有一女(8个月)

　　“听说政策放宽，当晚我母亲就给我打电话，希望我们再生一个，但妻子不愿意，现在还闹着别扭呢！”赵伟结婚4年，女儿今年3月份出生，刚刚学会爬。他告诉记者，自己有个兄弟，妻子是独生女。母亲一直想要一个孙子，之前政策不允许，现在政策出台了，她极力主张我们再生一个。”

　　赵伟坦言，他理解妻子不想生二胎的原因，十月怀胎相当辛苦，现在因为在家休哺乳假还放弃了出国培训的机会，为了这个孩子妻子在职业生涯上牺牲了太多。“我其实也不想生，我觉得儿子女儿都一样，但母命难违，我夹在当中很是为难。”(据《i时代报》)

（编辑：SN086）
2013年11月18日10:37
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